Flourish, Flourish in All Seasons

When You Need a Fresh Start (Live by your Values)

Faith. Purpose. Community. Margin. Beauty.

The five words are the anchors of my days.  They help me remember what God has called me to in this season. 

My days can look incredibly varied and different: somedays it might mean waking up early for a sunrise walk to get movement in before a full day of office work, or coming home with a dirt manicure, taking a mid-day break for a cup of tea and a good book, or squeezing in a few minutes of FaceTime or Marco Polo with a friend in the midst of a busy season.

How those values play out each day may look incredibly different, and yet the reasons why remain the same.

What do you value in your life friend? Simplicity?  Authenticity? Tanacity? Margin? Grit?  What are the things if we stripped away your titles, roles, relationship would remain true.

When I’m entering into a new season or looking for a refresh, I get back to basics. Are my days and decisions aligned with my core values or are they starting to drift? 

Now hear me out, I have days that are more mundane than beautiful and deal with feelings of loneliness even with my amazing community.  The values in my life don’t mean I have these things all together, it’s more about prioritizing these things and letting go of all the rest.

Faith:

My ultimate joy and goal here on earth is to Love God and Love His children.  When my world starts spinning, It’s usually because I’m trying to do everything in my own power. A life that flourishes is not perfect, but it IS a grand adventure. Stepping forward in faith means trusting and abiding in my Creator. 

When I’m in need of a fresh start, I start by journaling out all the things. It’s a humble and honest prayer to my Father, giving Him every concern, worry, and desire.  Have you ever tried journaling?

Jesus, I give everyone and everything to you.

John Eldridge

Purpose:

I believe that each of us were created with a unique set of skills and gifts that can shine into this world. We each have a deep inner desire and inherit need for meaningful work and purpose in our days. This will look different for everyone from homeschooling your kiddos, attending night school to finish your degree, writing that book you keep talking about, or taking a leap to open up that dream yoga studio! A life without purpose and meaning is dull and lacking in a true joy. There is something that comes alive in me when I have a project to tackle or a new adventure to figure out. It’s never easy but always worth the time and effort.

Community:

When life gets full, the first to go tends to be fun with friends. But, this extrovert needs her people during these full seasons more than ever.  When I start canceling fun with friends and family to stay home multiple nights in a row, that is a red flag to slow down and reprioritize my days. One of my greatest gifts is having dear local friends and family.  Calling them up for a walk, coffee chat, inviting myself over for dinner, or a walk to the taco truck helps me to recalibrate what matters most. Being present with my people reminds me that I’m not in it alone and also shifts my thoughts to others.

Margin:

As a single woman, I’m gifted with being largely in control of my time and schedule.  And yet, there are still weeks and seasons that feel like I’m blindly moving from one thing to the next with no transition in between and no breathing room.  In my life margin is not just a gift but a necessity.  Margin is more than just having extra time to process, it extends to our health, finances, and relationships. Margin allows me time to cook a healthy meal, visit the Y to swim, spend time with family, and do what I’m called to. Margin allows all the other things that are really important to actually happen. Fight for margin friends, fight for what matters in your life.

Beauty:

Beauty nourishes my soul the same way a fresh salad from the garden nourishes my body.  Beauty inspires, beauty encourages, and it makes all the rest of the stuff FUN!  Sometimes that means choosing to pour my coffee from a to-go cup into a vintage tea cup. Beauty can also mean making time to get outside for a hike and noticing the trees budding or hear the robins greet the day.  Beauty helps me pause, be present, and ultimately remember that my Creator is the giver of every good and perfect gift.  

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